Nigeria: Why some well‑dressed women steal food, plates at “Owambes”
By Zuleihat Owuiye, Mamos Nigeria
At many “owambe” (Nigerian party) celebrations, guests arrive in elaborate attire and glittering accessories. While most come to celebrate, a growing number of women—often appearing affluent—are using the events to pilfer food, plates, cutlery and even decorative items. The trend, which caterers say is driven by economic hardship, is eroding hospitality standards and raising costs for hosts.
A veteran caterer, described the problem as “alarming.” She noted that even women who look “classic” will hide forks, glasses or LED candles. “A champagne glass can cost N200 before the event; after the party we’re left with only 190,” she said, adding that some guests also take tablecloths and napkins.
Mrs. Owodunni Alakija confirmed that the issue extends beyond guests. “Drivers and security staff also steal plates and cutlery, leaving them in cars or posting them online,” she explained. To offset losses, she now includes a “damage fee” in her quotes.
Mr. Lucky Iduzogie, an event planner, reported losing more than 200 plates, countless spoons, cups and napkins between July and December. “When we prepare for 200 guests, two or three people will take food meant for ten,” he said, warning that the practice harms caterers’ reputations.
Mrs. Faith Braimoh who sells kitchen accessories, highlighted the financial impact. A quality ceramic plate sells for N3,000‑N5,000; a dozen stainless‑steel spoons can cost N25,000; a set of champagne glasses ranges from N50,000 to N100,000. “When these items are stolen, the loss quickly adds up,” she said.
Caterers attribute the theft to the economic downturn, which has reduced many households’ ability to afford regular meals. Some guests view the parties as an opportunity to “survive” by taking food or valuable items, even if they appear well‑dressed and seemingly affluent. In several cases, the stolen accessories are borrowed or acquired on credit, making the act appear less risky to the perpetrator.
